Sometimes, it’s the simple things that make the biggest difference – a friendly chat, a shared cup of tea, someone nearby when you need them. As part of Dementia Action Week, we’re sharing Beryl and Aruna’s story – a Homeshare West match – to show how Homeshare can bring comfort, renewed confidence, and lasting friendship to people living with dementia and those around them.
When Beryl’s family first suggested Homeshare, she wasn’t sure what to expect. At 89, she had lived a full and generous life – first as a qualified social worker, later as a volunteer youth counsellor within her church. But after being diagnosed with dementia, and particularly after the isolating impact of the Covid lockdowns, life had started to feel more difficult.
Beryl was still remarkably independent. She kept her home in good order, looked after herself, and loved catching up with family or friends, even though they lived some distance away. When she needed major surgery, her loved ones gently encouraged her to consider having a sharer through Homeshare West. Someone who could offer companionship, a little support and the reassurance of a calm, friendly presence in the home.
That’s when Aruna entered the picture.
Aruna had recently arrived in the UK on a skilled worker visa to join the care sector. Back home, she had worked for years in hospital labs and cared for her father, who lived with dementia during his final years. Thoughtful and respectful, she brought with her a quiet warmth and empathy that immediately put Beryl at ease.
“From the first week,” said Beryl’s daughter, “we noticed a difference. Mum was more relaxed knowing someone was in the house. They got on straight away – it was lovely to see.”
Aruna moved into the spare room in Beryl’s bright, comfortable home, with windows looking out over the garden Beryl had tended for decades. The arrangement suited them both.
“I feel very lucky,” said Aruna. “It’s not just a place to live. Beryl is kind and funny, and we share stories over tea. It’s a peaceful home, and I’m glad I can give something back.”
For Beryl, having Aruna around brought not only companionship, but also a renewed sense of confidence. She didn’t have to manage everything alone, and her family felt reassured knowing there was someone kind and capable living with her.
“We never thought Mum would enjoy sharing her home again at this stage,” said Beryl’s granddaughter. “But now I can’t imagine it any other way. Aruna is like part of the family.”
Two years on, the match is still going strong. There’s a gentle rhythm to life in the house – shared cups of tea, quiet evenings, and support when needed.
Homeshare may have started as a practical solution, but for Beryl and Aruna, it’s become something much more: a friendship that has brought joy, peace of mind and comfort to both of their lives.
For more information about Dementia Action Week and how to recognise the symptoms of dementia, visit the Alzheimer’s Society website: Dementia Action Week.